1. You have a masculine heart created by God.
2. We live in an epic adventure (love, romance, battle, suffering).
3. Posing gets in the way of real self (sin and brokenness is a fake self).
4. Wounded-ness is at the heart of the male poser (success man, biker brute, skin head).
5. Men need love and validation (especially from their Dad).
6. God teaches us how to be a warrior and
7. Our place in the epic story (life and eternity).
8. God teaches us to be a lover (of self, others and God).
Holiness is simply the wholeness of your humanity and being able to live real life from your created heart. This is what Jesus demonstrated.